Eight powerful secrets of top seduction: Don't play the ice queen but show a sincere smile, feel free to oppose opinions and say what you think about any subject, but be sure to disarm him with deep eye contact.
The look lethal to the opposite sex, a smile that disarms the coldest heart and walk that gives away confidence and femininity. Walk in shoes of real queens of flirting and copy their seduction tricks.
1. Be what you are
This is probably the most important thing to keep in mind and most difficult to do, even though it doesn't seem so. Sometimes, when you flirt it seems as if your body is possessed by another person - and that's when fluttering your lashes begins, playing with your hair and giggling at everything he says. Don't allow this to happen, at least don't overdo it. If there is a spark between the two of you, it's because he really likes you. So, don't suck up to him, but be confident when you talk about yourself and what you do and what you're interested in, and if he is interested, he will let you know.
So simple, yet so effective. One of the best seductive moves is - a big, sincere smile. It shouldn't be practiced in front of the mirror, but come from within, on its own. So, don't play the ice queen, and don't be shy if you find some little things funny, that might surprise the others. You are your own person, so show your charm and originality. Smile and seduce yourself.
3. Don't reveal too much
Yes, we know we said be what you are, but that doesn't mean you need to tell a sweet guy that you just met that night, that you have recently suffered a terrible virus, what was your last sex like or that you can't stand it when a guy doesn't call immediately after you went out with him.
Be yourself, yes, but make the topic of conversation light, casual and not too intimate.
4. Maintain eye contact
One of the best ways to let him know that you are interested is to let him 'catch' you watching him. When your eyes meet don't look away as long as possible, then look down and to the side and smile. And you've already made the first step.
5. Encourage 'spontaneous' physical contact
Touch is a powerful thing. Lightly touch his back as you are passing by his desk, or 'rub' your hand against his in a cafe or a club. During the conversation touch him a casually couple of times. If he shows interest in you, this kind of non-intrusive touching feels good for him. If you feel he's backing off – don't touch him anymore. It is also important to know that it is better not to exaggerate with physical contact. If you are constantly touching him, you look as if you're desperate to find a boyfriend - and that is something you definitely don't want. Instead of sitting in his lap - keep physical contacts to a minimum – and distribute them strategically. If he says something funny, lean a little closer to him and gently and briefly tap his arm or leg.
6. Make circular movements with your foot
When you sit down, cross your legs and make circular movements with your foot in his direction (of course, so that he notices it). If he is interested he will get the message. This is an unwritten rule that many psychologists say that is a good tool in the seduction of men.
If you are in a crowded club or at a party with loud music and everyone's yelling, lean towards him and whisper something in his ear.
It's a great excuse to get closer to him because whispering is a sign of intimate relationships. After a few minutes of intimate whispering, don't be surprised if he suggests you leave the party and go together to a quieter place.
8. Make him interested
Find out what he likes, then 'educate' a little about topics that interest him (sports, music, cars ...). Even discuss them and freely oppose opinions. Men appreciate women who think for themselves and have their own opinion on various topics. He will enjoy these conversations. And trust us - you will immediately become more important in his eyes.