Is he just acting friendly or he wants something more?
Sometimes men's behavior may seem like deciphering the Morse code. At first you think he is just being friendly, but in time you start to doubt that there is something more. He touches you. Talks about other women. He makes jokes about you as a couple.
Is he just being friendly ... or is he flirting?
There is an interesting pattern. Women usually underestimate the interest of men, while men overestimate the interest of women. Usually the answer to the question whether he's flirting with you is- yes.
But there are exceptions, and the last thing you want is to interpret the situation the wrong way. Here are eight small signs that show you that his interest is more than just platonic.
1. HE'S KIDDING WITH YOU
Does he sometimes go too far in it? Sometimes it even seems that he insults you before he realizes that he went too far?
Does he sometimes make fun of you in a strange way, even for things that make no sense? 'Oh God .. you love bread!?!? Look how funny you are with all that bread!'
If he does this, it doesn't mean that he is losing his mind. He's just trying to flirt with you on any given a chance, even when it is obvious that he is making these chances himself.
2. HE TOUCHES YOU
Men touch women they want to be close to. From accidentally touching your leg or back to helping you get up. Any touch is a sign of flirting.
3. HE TALKS TO YOU MORE THAN WITH OTHERS
Have you noticed that he mainly speaks to you when you are in a larger group of people? Men subconsciously give their time to women who they are interested in. And that is why their feelings are shown by the amount of effort they invest in talking to a woman (even if they are in the company of other men). If you notice that he is talking to others just a little and keeps coming back to you, it's not because he wants to be your friend.
4. BODY LANGUAGE
Words are as important as body language. Does he spend the most time with his body turned towards you, even if others are there? Does he go back to you after his attention was briefly stolen by something else? Does he always somehow end up near you? None of this is an accident.
5. YOU OFTEN CATCH HIM LOOKING OR SMILING AT YOU
The body also speaks from a distance. Do you sometimes catch him looking at you from across the room, or smiling at you? Is he looking who you are talking to? When you are in the company of people, the man who likes you will constantly think where you are and look for you.
6. HE PROPOSES NEXT MEETING OR SUGGESTS THAT YOU ARE A COUPLE
Does he suggest you going to a festival? Insists on going with him to a cafe? Makes jokes about you as a couple so it doesn't look like a joke? Does he mention your marriage or children in the future? In these ways, he is trying to see what you think about it.
7. HE IS INTERESTED IN MANY THINGS ABOUT YOU.
When a man shows interest in many areas of your life (and especially for the status of your love life), he does it for a reason. He doesn't share your passion for astrology or plants, he likes you.
8. SEXUAL INSINUATIONS
This is a really obvious sign of flirting. Such comments may also mean that he just wants to go to bed, but perhaps he seriously likes you. In any case, this confirms that he is interested in you. Men are easier to read than you think. If you notice these signs in a man, that he's flirting, he's waiting for your approval to take action. Remember: Women usually underestimate the interest of men, while men overestimate the interest of women. Basically, the answer to the question whether he's flirting with you is- yes.