We all dream of finding our soulmate, with whom we will spend the rest of our lives. However, it is not always easy to know what we need and what we should pay attention to. Maybe it doesn’t sound too romantic, but sometimes our heart fools us, so we fall in love with a person who doesn’t suit us in character and with whom we would never be happy.
Find out what you really need to find a soulmate so you can live happily ever after.
When it comes to finding a soul mate, you will not be happy until you find someone who challenges you. To put it simply, you need someone who is more aggressive than passive, someone who is not afraid to tell you even what you do not want to hear.
You need a soulmate that will push you to be the best version of yourself. Do you remember that saying that misfortune never comes alone? That's why you need someone to push you when you feel bad, who won’t let you sink.
Since you constantly have in mind a million ideas and plans, you need someone who will help you focus your energy on something useful, which will help you in your life. This is a person who is down to Earth and who will give you a solid foundation on which you will be able to build your life further.
You need someone who can listen to your deepest thoughts and emotions without judging. It is a person who needs to be sensitive and able to help you find the answer to your questions instead of telling you comforting phrases, as your previous partners did.
You need someone who will understand that the person you show in public does not have to be who you really are. Yes, you like being at the center of attention and being distinguished, but in privacy, you can take off the mask and show the real version of yourself to those with whom you are most closely connected.
Your perfect partner is someone who will help you to accept yourself. You are already too self-critical. Therefore, opposite to other signs, you don’t need someone who will push you to be better. You need someone who will love you and accept you for you are.
You need a person who will show you that it's okay not to always be at the center of attention. You are constantly surrounded by people and all eyes are on you. A true soulmate will give you enough space to figure out that you can survive with yourself and your thoughts.
The most important quality that a person beside you can have is absolute trust. In the past you developed a fear of real intimacy because you have been betrayed many times. With the right person, you will feel comfortable to open.
Your soulmate must love change and excitement. You would be deadly bored with someone who would rather stay home in the evening and who doesn’t like traveling. You need someone who loves adventures and who often surprises you with their spontaneity.
You need someone who can overcome predictable conservative armor you put on yourself and who will see the excitement in you. The right person will help you relax and enjoy life. With this person, you will discover new parts of your personality you have not even dreamed of.
The right person will support you even in the craziest and most irrational ideas. You are surrounded by a lot of people, both in private and at work, who doubt you. A soulmate will always be there to support you.
Your soul mate must be a positive person who will fill you with the warm feelings that your former lovers did not provide. Because of their love, you will start to think more positively and discover your optimistic and creative side.