Sometimes it seems as if our relationship no longer makes sense, and it's time to end it ...
But, we're not 100% sure of that. Is it just me or we really lost interest? Or our partner has the biggest impact on all of this?
If you found yourself in one or more of these sentences, you may want to consider a break-up.
1. You ignore each other more than you talk
When you are together at home you don’t talk, because he finds other things more important than talking to you. You should never be asking him for special attention; he alone should give it to you and show any interest in you whatsoever.
2. You keep arguing about house chores
Even though women are generally neater and they want clean and tidy space, your partner should get involved a little in house chores. If he doesn't want to have anything to do with cleaning up and helping, it is better to 'get rid' of him, because the problems will only grow, and so will your discontent.
3. He insults you
This usually happens during the small or big fights. Still, even such situations should not be excused for him to tell you something ugly. Know that as soon as your partner starts to insult you, even if it was ‘just in the heat of moment’, he has no respect for you.
4. You don't spend much time together
You don't have to spend every second together – after all we all have our own lives, responsibilities and needs. But if your partner wants to spend the time when you can see each other and do something together doing something else, even if it is something less important or wants to spend time with other people - perhaps you are not as important to him as much as you thought.
5. He is close with his ex-girlfriend
If your partner maintains contact with his ex-girlfriend, but within boundaries of reason - that's fine. However, if she interferes in all aspects of his, and also your life together, something's wrong there. He probably still has feelings for her, so it wouldn't be a bad idea to talk to him about it, see it for yourself and leave him.