Recent study that was published in the journal 'Psychological Science' indicates that there are nine topics that are the most important indicators of how strong one relationship is:
Unpleasant moments: If you can talk with your partner about unpleasant situations that have happened to you and about the most embarrassing moments of your life, you are perfect couple.
Political attitudes: When it comes to politics, of course you don't have to agree on everything, but you should be open to all options. In a good and healthy relationship, both sides present their attitudes and understandings and that by no means should be a reason to be angry.
Fears and insecurities: When you talk with your partner about what keeps you awake at night, for instance, you show your vulnerability and risk to get hurt, but there is also the possibility that he understands and helps you.
Childhood: Childhood memories are the very interesting topic of conversation and you both will enjoy it and probably laugh out oud. But more importantly, this way you will discover what was his growing up like and how he became the man he is today.
Previous relationships: This is, we agree, sensitive subject. Nobody likes talking about former relationships, nor listening about them either. Still, there is a difference in whether while he's talking he still longs for his ex-girlfriend or maybe he's bitter or he simply, calmly, without getting too excited talks about what once was and how it ended. This is also important because you will find out a lot about his behavior, habits and attitudes towards women.
Family life: It is very important to know all about the relationship your chosen partner has with his family and how he was raised. Especially if you are planning future with this man.
Current happenings: Ask him as often as possible what he thinks about what is happening in the world, how he sees the world order, the economic crisis, 3D TV, what he thought of the movie ... It will all help you become closer and develop new interests.
TV and movies: If we compare this item with the politics, it will look very shallow. However, this can show you a lot about your partner. After you see a film together, ask him all about the motives of a character from the movie about conspiracies, intrigues ... You will learn more about him than you expect.
Future: Talk about a future together isn't particularly pleasant to any couple. So, don't pressure him with this question and start to talk about marriage and children, but you need to know everything about his wishes, goals and hopes.