believe that such people really exist! We can’t imagine somebody cheating on us, deceiving, or hurting without remorse, spreading lies and making up things to destroy someone's reputation or pretend and pose as something they are not, with the aim of harming others.
However, unfortunately, we know that such people exist. The following five signs show that you are dealing with people with malicious heart and, if you recognize some of them, it would be best to stay away from such persons and leave ‘repairing’ them and their mental healing to professionals.
1. Mean people are experts in creating confusion, disturbance, and fights.
They: twist the facts, deceive, lie, avoid taking responsibility
They negate reality, make up stories, keep information to themselves.
2. Mean people are experts in deceiving others with their sweetness.
But if you look at the fruits of their lives or if you let their words govern you, you will see that such people never change and don’t invest in growth and development. Their life is an illusion, and their mental food is the suffering of other people
3. Mean people always want to control other people, and they are alone
their highest authority.
They reject feedback and constructive criticism; they create themselves
the rules to live by, without paying attention to moral norms.
4. Mean people often play the card of sympathy with good people in order to deceive them.
It looks like this: they seek compassion, but they don’t show any. They want warmth, forgiveness, and intimacy from the people they harmed with no empathy for the pain they caused and without real intention to try and fix what they did or try to regain the lost trust.
5. Mean people don’t have a conscience and don’t know what remorse is.
They don’t even have the intention to try and fight against their own evil - in fact, they enjoy it - all under the mask of a good character.