Why do you choose him: Probably because you yourself are very narcissistic.
Whether we want to admit it or not, each of us has a type of men who she finds more attractive than other types of men, and it is precisely this choice that says a lot about us. Maybe more than we would like to ...
Characteristics: In love with himself, always in the spotlight, always the loudest, always with the need to charm. Once you win him, his ugly side shows - you have to constantly praise him, and receive the criticism he has for everything.
Why do you choose him: Probably because you yourself are very narcissistic. We know, it sounds awful, but that’s how it is. Narcissistic people are often attracted to each other, and once you start a relationship, it turns into a constant competition who will be better, more beautiful, and who will get more attention.
Emotionally unavailable guy
Characteristics: He is not ready for a relationship, doesn’t like to show feelings and he certainly doesn’t like planning future with you. You can’t catch him, because he always keeps you on thin ice.
Why do you choose him: Because you feel like you don’t deserve better. Women who are constantly trying to fight these men don’t have enough confidence to say: ‘I deserve a man who will adore me’ - and leave.
Guy who needs to be fixed
Characteristics: He is not good enough for you, but once you are done with him, he will be just perfect. When you hook up with him, you have a feeling that you've started a charity project.
Why do you choose him: You have a constant need to fix something, be somebody's hero, to prove that you are a good person. Probably in your past there was a relationship that makes you feel bad and you’re trying to make up for old sins.
Characteristics: He has a girlfriend, or even worse - he has a wife. You won’t catch him because he's already engaged, and even if he leaves everything for you, you will probably end things quickly because you are no longer a secret.
Why do you choose him: Because you have no respect for yourself. If you have the nerve to be in a relationship with someone who is already in another relationship, you show that you have no respect for others either. You are probably secretly hoping that he will leave his girlfriend or wife, and secretly believe that you don’t deserve a man who is all yours.