Secretion of oxytocin in women causes a sense of commitment, which only makes it harder for you to decide whether he is the right man for you or not.
True love is a myth for some, but for most women it is something they strive for, even subconsciously.
Experts on dating, Alessandra and Cristina Conti studied women for long and tried to understand why smart, successful women who want to find love, always fail.
The conclusion is the following: If you like a man and want a serious relationship, don't go to bed with him immediately!
It should last long enough to get everything you want from him, because as Alessandra and Cristina say, once he gets what he wanted, he will conclude that his behavior was satisfactory until then, so he'll try just as until then (or even less). It sounds cruel, but we must admit that it makes sense.
Here are three more things that experts advise you to do in order to make a good choice, but also keep the man you like:
1.Show him that you are not like the others
Maybe some women would give in earlier, but you must show him that you are a woman that he has to work hard for. He needs to know that you are not an easy prey, and that he should make an extra effort to get you – that's the kind of girl he'll want to meet with his friends.
2. Go out with him
For a cup of coffee, to the cinema, theater ... Do things you would normally do on a first date, but practice them longer. If you get to know each other better before sex, chances are bigger that the attractiveness will continue to exist after it, and sex will be better, because you will be more relaxed.
3. Stay away from oxytocin
Orgasm is a wonderful thing, but oxytocin comes with it, which causes a sense of attachment with women. Oxytocin doesn't ask if a man you like is really good for you, if you agree in character, if you have similar desires ... Once a woman sleeps with a man, she begins to develop feelings that can mess up with her mind, and for the right man it is necessary to decide whether he really is the right one reasonably.