Laziness is sometimes a wonderful thing – we're talking about Saturday morning when you decide to stay longer in bed or the training session you decide to skip because you really don't feel like it. But no matter how wonderful it is, being lazy in the long run is not worth it - not only it is not worth it but it can literally destroy your love life. Here's how.
You're not meeting new guys
Have you ever caught yourself saying that you simply can't manage to meet someone interesting? You probably have. Women say it very often, and studies show that a great number of such women says that lying at home under a blanket, with a series or a book.
It is clear that you won't meet anyone if you spend every Saturday night in your room, and it is exactly your laziness that prevents you from getting out of your comfort zone and finding love.
You don't feel like doing it all over again
You want a cool boyfriend with whom are you going to spend long, lazy weekends but you hate going on dates and meeting new people? No matter how hard it may be, it's the only way to get to the stage you desire. Routine is a wonderful part of a relationship, but first you need to work for it.
You're not trying
Even when someone likes yoy, you expect them to win you over immediately and do all the work? Unfortunately, things don't work that way. People respond to people who show interest in them - if you don't give any signs that you like the guy and you're waiting for him to make an effort, you'll miss the opportunity for something more because he will find someone who still gives some signals.