Those who dare to ‘go for it’ often have a dilemma - where to do it.
Woman with her legs crossed in the right way and perfect cleavage, tells the Court about the real causes that led to the murder of her lover, while the judge, lawyers and jury, consisting exclusively of men, are fascinated while they listen to the story ...
This is how Dr. Alejandro Napolitano, a psychotherapist from Buenos Aires vividly describes the power of members of the fairer sex. He also adds that men, no matter how hard they’re trying to resist, before attractive woman they are eventually disarmed by her curves, tone of voice or her fingers gently playing with her hair curls. They seduce with their figure, captivating male gaze and bringing it to a hypnotic trance.
If men are visual creatures, then it is certain that physical characteristics and manipulation using them, are women’s strongest weapons.
Is it, however, the only one? Do they triumph in this game of seduction in a different way, by using intelligence, relying on their wit, emphasizing their kindness? And how much of it they use, because the main question is- have stereotypes finally been broken, and it became normal for girls to make moves on men?
Psychotherapists says that today flirting is much rarer, but also that the ladies are more daring and they make the first move.
They saw that there’s no use waiting for men, so they decided to take the first step.
– Courting was once reserved for members of the stronger sex. The things they did in order to win the affection of their sympathy are unbelievable. Today they withdrew, got stuck in corners, and it’s as if they are waiting for the girl of their dreams to get them out of there. What happened is that women are forced to start seducing.
Unskillful in this game, or actually skillful, they relied on the primal in them. Seduction with the look through the eyelashes, a smile that is both provocative and shy, gentle tone of voice and seductive walk – will reveal to men a woman eager of attention. And that is not a strategic weapon, but something that is innate to ladies, but was suppressed by cultural or religious imperatives in the past. When a girl is insisting on it and uses it pronouncedly, according to the advice of geisha from a movie, it can be said that she’s resorted to tactics.